Monday, February 12, 2007

What worry does to us? ဘာကုိကၽြန္ေတာ္ေႀကာက္ေနတာလဲ ?

ေပ်ာ္ရႊင္ၿခင္းဆုိတာ သင္႔ရဲ႔ အဆင္႔အတန္း၊ သင္႔ရဲ႔ ပိုင္ဆုိင္မႈေတြနဲ႔ လားလားမွ မပတ္သက္ပါ။ သင္၏အေတြးအေခၚႏွင္႔ ေလာကကုိသင္ဘယ္လုိ ၿမင္လဲဆုိတာအေပၚပဲ မူတည္ပါသည္။


လူေတြနဲ႔ ပတ္သက္ၿပီး ေႀကကြဲစရာ အေကာင္းဆုံး ၿဖစ္ရပ္တစ္ခုက ကၽြန္ေတာ္တုိ႔ရဲ႔ လက္ရွိဘ၀ကုိ ကၽြန္ေတာ္တုိ႔ မေနေပ်ာ္ႏုိင္ၿခင္းပဲ ၿဖစ္ပါသည္။ ကၽြန္ေတာ္တုိ႔ဟာ ဟုိးမုိးကုတ္စက္၀ုိင္းမွာရွိေနမယ္႔ လက္ဆုပ္လက္ကုိင္မၿပႏုိင္တဲ႔ ႏွင္းဆီပန္းခင္းႀကီးကုိ အိပ္မက္ေတြမက္ေနရင္း ကၽြန္ေတာ္တုိ႔ရဲ႔ ၿပတင္းေပါက္ အၿပင္မွာ ပြင္႔ေနတဲ႔ ႏွင္းဆီပန္းေလးေတြရဲ႔ အလွကုိ မခံစားႏုိင္ဘူး ၿဖစ္ေနႀကသည္။


"Remember happiness doesn't depend upon who you are or what you have; it depends solely on what you think."
(Dale Carnegie)

"One of the most tragic things I know about human nature is that all of us tend to put off living. We are all dreaming of some magical rose garden over the horizon-instead of enjoying the roses blooming outside our windows today."
(Dale Carnegie)

I couldn't sleep tonight and thus I was browsing the internet. An idea hit my head and I googled 'Dale Carnegie' on the web. While I was reading through his famous sayings, the above two statements caught my eyes. I read them again and again until I got something for myself.

Most of us are worrying about our future and cannot live out of our present moments. When I was in Burma, I worried about getting admitted to schools with a good financial aid. When I got schools, I worried about getting a visa. I thought I would be very happy when I got scholarships from school and got the visa. I just thought like that for many years. I'm here right now. But, am I really happy with what I am getting? Not really!

I couldn't enjoy the happy moments while I was in my country. I just keep on worrying about my future. Even now, I am still worrying about my career opportunities and settling down. Wow! When will all these worries end in my life? Or when will my life end up with those worries? They are really tearing me down. I have been worrying about tomorrow and tomorrow again. I should have lived meaningfully at least one day in my lifetime, shouldn't I?

That's why I like the second sayings of Dale Carnegie. I have been putting off my living. I have been dreaming on and on about the magical rose garden over the horizon. And the truth is that these magical rose gardens are not the real ones I want. They are just the mirage. They are just the illusion which will make us think happy. The real happiness lies in our heart, and in ourselves not in outside. Once we can change our thoughts, we will see the world from the different perspectives.

On the other hand, it's reasonable to worry about my future because I have to think ahead for my life. But, there is a thin line between worry and action. Most of us are just keep on worrying without taking action. Once we take some actions, all the worries would be wiped out. We thought those worries are the one which help us successful. That's not true. Only our actions can draw us from the misery and concern. If you can't see the worries separately from the problems, your life would be messed up sooner or later. Some people are already eliminated by those unreasoned worries.

To sum up, worries give us nothing but nervous breakdown. Think your best and do with all your might and then go ahead. Don't let yourself be overwhelmed by what you can't do at this moment. Take care of pennies, and pounds would be taken care off.

At least, I'm still worrying about getting rid of worries. Hahaha.

ေႀကာက္ရြံံ႔ စုိးရိမ္ၿခင္းၿဖင္႔ သင္၏လက္ရွိအဖုိးတန္အခုိက္အတန္႔ေလးမ်ားအား မၿဖဳန္းတီးပါ

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